Saturday, May 17, 2008

10 Tips for Approaching That Hot Girl

  1. Just do it - It doesn't matter what the outcome is in the end, you will never know if you don't try.
  2. Approach quickly - Don't give yourself the opportunity to talk yourself out of doing it
  3. Be yourself - Don't act differently than you normally would. If you do try to be something that you're not your body language will give you away.
  4. Trying and failing is better than standing around - Who would you have more respect for - The guy who just stands around looking dumb or the guy with the balls to approach her?
  5. Don't offer to buy her a drink - While doing so might get her to listen to you for a few minutes, it will immediately throw you into the same category as all of the other chumps that offer to buy her drinks. There are better ways to get women to talk to you.
  6. Be fun - Don't interview or interrogate her. She's there to have fun, and if you show her that you can have a good time with or without you, guess what she's going to want?
  7. Don't be hard on yourself - No matter what you do managed to do, dont be hard on yourself if you fail to do what you wante to do. Look at what you did accomplish, and next time try to do better. If you thrive on your failure instead of concentrating on your successes, it will be harder next time. If you look at your success for what it is, you'll be more successfull next time.
  8. Dress well - You don't have to wear a suit and a tie, but you definitely don't want to be dressed in the cloths you wore to work on your car that afternoon. While looking nice may not be the key to unlocking the door into a relationship, it will help get you get those first few words in.
  9. She's not the only girl in the world - There are alot of available women out there and if she chooses not to talk to you, that's her loss because someone else will get the opportunity. Plus going into the situation realizing that its ot the end of the world if she shoots you down will make you less nervous and more likely to succeed.
  10. Be Confident - You have nothing to lose, only something to gain. If you are 100% confident approaching and talking to her she will respect it, especially if she is really hot. Hot women are used to men being intimidated by them so she'll be interested in you when you're not.

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